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Now, again, I'm not trying to control them. I'm just setting a boundary. I'm saying, "Yeah, I'd like to hang out with you but I'll hang out with you here not here." We're doing http://dailybruin.com/2016/04/27/keshav-tadimeti-sexual-assault-awareness-is-important-but-action-is-key/ this event not doing this event. So, those are ways in which we can use boundaries to keep ourselves safe.

Where we look at what we know about the other person, we make decisions and choices on what we're comfortable with https://www.the-pool.com/news-views/latest-news/2016/16/powerful-videos-highlight-the-problem-of-rape-at-university and with things over which we have control and then we just set that boundary with them. Oftentimes, that's difficult to do because we're afraid of hurting their feelings.


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